Wednesday, January 19, 2005

a friend of mine just got married a few months ago. she is now separated from her husband due to business relocation and meets her husband once every two weeks.

someone finds that her husband is dating other girls for fun, and just for fun, nothing else. chat via mobile sms, go out for dinner occasionally, and no sex involved. but it's not something he happen to meet, he actively initiates these affairs.

my friend experienced a divorce before and doesn't want another, and she knows nothing about her husband's affairs, and they are planning to have a kid.

should i tell her what's happening with her husband? should i give her some hints so she could stay with him together?

what should i do?

thanks a lot,

ps: in his past living experience (in another country), such "affairs" are not a sin for a man

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Love remains unnotarized

posted @ 5:53 PM

via: www.sina.com, read the report: here (in chinese)

CNNIC历年中国互联网统计数字摘要

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网民数 上网计算机 CN域名 宽带用户 拨号用户
2005.01.19 9400万 4160万 432077 4280万 5240万
2004.07.20 8700万 3630万 38万 3110万 5155万
2004.01.15 7950万 3089万 34万 1740万 4916万
2003.07.21 6800万 2572万 25万 980万 4501万
2003.01.16 5910万 2083万 17.9万 660万 4080万
2002.07.22 4580万 1613万 12.6万 200万 2682万
2002.01.15 3370万 1254万 12.7万 未统计 2133万
2001.07.17 2650万 1002万 12.8万 未统计 1793万
2001.01.17 2250万 892万 12.2万 未统计 1543万
2000.07.27 1690万 650万 9.9万 未统计 1176万
2000.01.18 890万 350万 4.8万 未统计 666万
1999.12.05 400万 146万 2.9万 未统计 256万
1998.06.30 117.5万 54.2万 9415 未统计 46万
1997.10.31 63万 29.9万 4066 未统计 25万

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posted @ 2:15 PM

via: liuzhou, read this great article here: Dinner with the In-Laws

it was many years ago ...

posted @ 11:12 AM

via: china daily

A video grab image shows eight hostages holding Chinese passports standing before a mud brick wall along with two masked gunmen. The kidnappers threathen to kill them within 48 hours unless China clarifies its stance on Iraq. [Reuters]

pray for them, hope they can come back home safely soon.

they are: Lin Qiang (39), Wei Wu (19), Zhou Sunlin (18), Lin Bin (39), Lin Zhong (38), Chen Qinai (37), Zhou Sunqin (17), Lin Xiong (34)   source: phonix tv

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posted @ 6:51 AM