Sunday, July 06, 2008
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What Is Love Actually?
Why do we close our eyes when we sleep?
When we cry? When we imagine? When we kiss?
This is because the most beautiful things in the world are unseen.
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird
and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours,
we join up with them
and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.
There are things that we never want to let go of,
people we never want to leave behind,
but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world,
it's the beginning of a new life.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt,
those who have searched and those who have tried.
For only they can appreciate the importance of the people
who have touched their lives.
A great love? It's when you shed tears and still you care for him,
it's when he ignores you and still you long for him.
It's when he begins to love another and yet you still smile
and say I'm happy for you.
If love fails, set yourself free,
let your heart spread its wings and fly again.
Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies,
you never have to die with it.
The strongest people are not those who always win
but those who stand back up when they fall.
Somehow along the course of life,
you learn about yourself and realize
there should never be regrets,
only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made.
A true friend understands when you say, I forgot,
waits forever when you say, just a minute,
stays when you say leave me alone,
opens the door even before you knock and says can I come in?
Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive,
not how you listen but how you understand,
not what you see but how you feel,
and not how you let go but how you hold on.
It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly.
Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever.
In love, very rarely do we win
but when love is true, even if you lose,
you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone
more than you love yourself.
There comes a time when we have to stop loving someone
not because that person has stopped loving us
but because we have found out
that they'd be happier if we let go.
It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that's available.
Best to wait for the one you love than one who is around.
Best to wait for the right one
because life is too short to waste on just someone.
Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you the most,
and sometimes the friend who takes you into his arms
and cries when you cry
turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted.
If you really love someone never let go,
don't believe that letting go means that you love best,
instead fight for your love,
that's what true love is.
Laugh to your heart's content;
you cannot go through life without it.
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Saturday, July 05, 2008
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Wednesday, July 02, 2008
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Monday, June 30, 2008
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Sunday, June 29, 2008
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当我从高楼跳下来时，我看到……
As I jumped off the builiding, I saw......
10F以恩爱著称的夫妇正在互殴
the known loving couple at 10F are hitting each other
9F平常坚强的Peter正在偷偷哭泣
the usually strong & tough Peter at 9F crying
8F的阿妹发现未婚夫跟最好的朋友在床上
8F Ah Mei just found out that her fiancee is sleeping with her best friend
7F的丹丹在吃她的抗忧郁症药
7F Dan is taking her daily anti-depression medicine
6F失业的阿喜还是每天买7份报纸找工作
6F jobless Heng continues to buy 7 newspapers everyday to search for a job
5F受人尊敬的王老师正在偷穿老婆的内衣
much respected Mr Wong at 5F is secretly trying on his wife's undergarments
4F的Rose又要和男友闹分手
4F Rose is fighting again with her boyfriend
3F的阿伯每天盼望有人拜访他
the old man at 3F is hoping everyday that someone would come by and pay him a visit
2F的莉莉还在看她那结婚半年就失踪的老公照片
2F Lily is still staring at the picture of her husband who went missing after they were married for half a year
在我跳下之前，我以为我是世上最倒霉的人
Before I jumped off the building, I thought I was the most unlucky person
现在我才知道每个人都有不为人知的困境
Now I just realized that everyone has their own problems and worries
我看完他们之后深深觉得其实自己过得不错
After I had seen these, I found that I was not that bad at all
所有刚才被我看的人现在都在看我
The people that I saw just now are looking at me now
我想他们看了我以后，也会觉得自己其实过得还不错
I think after they see me now, they might feel that they are not that bad after all | |
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Thursday, June 19, 2008
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Saturday, June 14, 2008
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by Annie Leonard
From its extraction through sale, use and disposal, all the stuff in our lives affects communities at home and abroad, yet most of this is hidden from view. The Story of Stuff is a 20-minute, fast-paced, fact-filled look at the underside of our production and consumption patterns. The Story of Stuff exposes the connections between a huge number of environmental and social issues, and calls us together to create a more sustainable and just world. It'll teach you something, it'll make you laugh, and it just may change the way you look at all the stuff in your life forever.