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Respect
Her
Woman
is truly amazing.
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They
bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love
and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want
to cry.
They
cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They
don't take 'no' for an answer if there's a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They
go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel; cheer when friends get awards.
They
are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet
they are strong whenthey think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll
drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail to show how much they care.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They
have compassion and ideals.
They
give moral support to their family and friends.
Women
have vital things to say and everything to give.
There is only
one flaw in women:
They are not aware of their
worth.
THIS
SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are
between you.
A
girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by
yourself,
the
women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on,
praying
for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf,
and
waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...
Or
come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters,
sisters-in-law,
Mothers,
Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family,
all
bless our life!
The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.
When
we began this adventure called womanhood,
we
had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.
Nor
did we know how much we would need each other.
Cute
TaoGirl's personal thought:
Well, I have to say that some women are often monstrous and devilish. I
used to be a victim of numerous of them. Once in a blue moon, I also
transform to become one! *guilty
guilty* Of course I will try to run away and lock myself
up the moment I notice the change (sounds
like werewolf, ooooooo scary!),
but when I don't hide fast enough, some innocent people unfortunately
suffered. I apologize to all my dear friends at times like these, and I
seriously don't know that I have hurt you. For the not-so-innocent
people, well, Ahem! You'd better do some self reflection! Yeah!!! *And a
cool pose... give me the pistol... quick!* *camera man where are you???.....*
Nevertheless, most of the time, we all try to be the best we can be: a
good sister, a good friend, a good daughter, a good lover, and for the
married, a good wife, a good mother, finally a good grandma in the
future. Can you understand why there are times when a woman has no
other choice but to tear in silence? That's when she has sacrifised
herself giving her love away, leaving nothing for herself. Sometimes,
the result turns out to be all upside down and she may start to feel
like a failure. That's when you need to hold her hands and assure her
that she is doing fine. Don't scold her for being stupid, because how
many people in this world is brave enough to give their 100%? Guide her
gently, because she doesn't know she is doing it wrong. Be proud of her
strength and courage, and be glad if you are her target of love.
If you are
not able to receive and return her love, refuse gently but continue to
give her the encouragement and support as a friend and buddy.
So,
guys, you know what to do now?
Flowers and gifts don't mean a thing if the mind and heart is not there
for her. Whatever you do, be sincere. Use your heart to communicate,
not your logic. But feel free to use your mind for creative ideas.  
Finally, please RESPECT
HER!
For the
women species, please don't be upset when men can't understand you.
Sometimes they operate at a different frequency and wavelength. It's
sometimes women (mothers) and society which train them to become like
that, because we never teach them to understand our language of love.
Weather is
partially cloudy here at 29 degrees Celcius humidity 60 to 95%. This
is Cute TaoGirl reporting at channel 777. Channel 777 will be in hibernation till
the next blue moon come, when I transform to be... hmmm... I don't
know... maybe a Wicked Witch of West Coast! *Kekeke*
(for your
information, I stay in the West Coast part of Singapore.)
Till then,
have a good day every day, and remember, proper rest is to prepare for
longer journey. Wish you enough sleep and enough nourishment to keep
you going! Most importantly, be healthy and happy always!
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