有朋友留言赠一阕美丽词句，提醒了我七月的最后一天是七夕。更悉闻今年牛郎织女可相会两次，三十八年一遇的闰七月，恐怕各路商家又得磨拳擦掌。
不是织女，没有牛郎，这个日子无甚特别。
最近在细读Rabbi Dov Heller关于婚姻的演讲，其中一段：
A principle here that I’d like to share with you is…and this is something that, again, doesn’t sound intuitively correct at first glance. It is as follows: The more specifically you define yourself, the more specifically you define your values, the more specifically you define your lifestyle, the better chance you have of finding your life partner and your soul mate. Because the more you define yourself, the more you attract the type of person who is really compatible with you.
In other words, you have to know where you’re going before you can decide who’s coming along with you on the trip.
一直以来觉得容忍或妥协是最后的出路，亦为此走过许多弯路，终不得善果。由此看来，或许一开始就迷失了方向。
今天是不是七夕，有没有牛郎，能不能相会，其实真的不重要。在路上每一天，哪天不是唯一呢？